It's easy to think that in so many aspects of our life we get what we deserve and in some respects that might be true but what if we are setting our expectations lower than we could be?
I think it's entirely possible that more often than we should we don't believe we deserve better, from having a relationship with someone where you feel as if you can truly be yourself with is beyond your wildest dreams, that having a job you love is something other people get, not you!
I believe it is often easier to think that we don't deserve more, that to hope for more is somehow wrong. Are we being selfish is a question that I am sure runs through many peoples minds when they feel unhappy in a particular situation.
But perhaps the case is that the vibe we give out says "I don't deserve a better outcome" and that the world is actually responding to this. However, what if we said we would like the best outcome whatever that may be. What if we said we trust that not only will the world respond but that our mindset will change and we will think positively about the potential outcome?
Why not give it a try the next time you have a decision to make, say I trust that I will get the best outcome and tell yourself that is perfectly fine to reach for the stars because there is no earthly reason you shouldn't!
Love,
Cate